Underestimating The Moment – An Artists Journey To Life: Day 771

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I leave again tomorrow to go home. I tried leaving a couple days ago but then ran into car trouble so had to get that fixed before I return home. When I arrive home I will be heading into the winter season, both seasonally as well as business wise. My experience is that when I get home that it will be a form of a ‘beginning’ of sorts. So at the moment, I am kind of just preparing for that. What I am observing about myself is that I have connected a lot ‘negativity’ to ‘New Beginnings’ because of the past I have had with ‘new beginnings’ where ‘nothing ever changes’ and so in thinking about this ‘beginning’ now taking place where I am starting a new phase of things, a part of me is excited but there is a part of me that is also heavy, and down, and telling myself, “who cares, it’s the same ol’ thing because things aren’t going to change this time around” So my question is, How do I actually change this heaviness, and how do I actually make a difference in my life instead of living out the usual patterns that end up creating the negative relationship I have with ‘new beginnings’

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to tell myself “things never change” and to connect an energy experience of anger and frustration to this statement. And so within this allowing myself to be influenced by anger and frustration energy.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to not realize even that these subtle energetic dimensions that I have connected to “new beginnings” is actually influencing me where I will just dismiss the heavy experience I have within me instead of investigating where it is coming from so that I can change it and change myself through understanding it and also being more aware of it so that I don’t allow it to subtly influence me in the background of myself.

I commit myself to realize that writing supports me to see more of myself and open myself up and so become more aware of myself and so thus overall supports me to Direct different parts of me that go undirected because they are unnoticed when I am writing a lot less or not as engaged in a process of Self Introspection that is very much strengthened through self writing.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to already go into Self Defeat, before I even begin something because of how it went in the past, where I have accumulated so many reactions where I have reached a point of thinking “whats the point”

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think it is impossible to step out of my experience that is here in relation to starting this new phase of my life.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to Fear that things will just be the same as always.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to build up this new phase, where I want and desire things to be different this time, instead of just sticking to walking day by day.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to separate myself from my creative and directive power through allowing myself to project in mind and fantasize in my mind what the future will be like, instead of sticking to HERE, and Creating it HERE in the very moment and breath I stand and breathe as.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to project excitement, fun, and creativity into the future, projecting this idea of how “things will be” moving forward, but in that separating myself from me Living HERE day to day which is where I can practically and physically be and become the change I want to see, through Living it here in and now, in this moment, seeing, realizing, and understanding that all and any change comes from the decisions I make in real time, and so I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to underestimate the HERE Moment.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to underestimate the moment within which I Stand, where even though it might seem ordinary and even mundane or something that does not have a lot of potential, I see, realize, and understand that it is in this moment, and the decisions I live HERE in this moment in the present that shape myself and my life into the future.

I commit myself to see, realize, and understand that the moment I find myself in now is my creative moment, and where my creative, directive principle exists, and so I commit myself to remind myself to not underestimate the moments of my life that is HERE, that I often define as ordinary or mundane.

I commit myself to practice focusing myself into and as Real-Time Living, and I commit myself to practice Challenging what I have accepted and allowed myself to define as boring, and uninspiring moments. Challenging them, from the perspective of Challenging myself to acknowledge that Who I am is determined through my thoughts, words, and deeds, in each and every moment, and that if a moment is one I see and define as boring, this does not change the fact that I am still creating myself in that very moment and that my decisions, my thoughts, my words, and my deeds, are Equally as Potent in Transformational and Creative force as any other moment, and so I commit myself remind myself this and realize that there is a lot of support I can give myself even if at first I allow myself to engage with a moment through my mind and preprogrammed ways of being and engaging.

I commit myself to embrace the moment I am in, no matter what it might seem like, as I see, realize, and understand that each moment that is here is Equal in its Creative Potency. I will either creating something boring for myself or I will create something interesting, or I will create some other outcome, either way, it is my will and self movement and direction that determines the outcome where I am 100 percent responsible for who I am and what I create.

So here I am reminding myself that my actions do matter in a moment, they NEVER don’t matter. And also in relation to this, that I can stop existing in future projections of this new phase of my life, because in a way, I am already In it so I don’t have to imagine it, rather I can just Focus on Right Here and Right Now, and Focus on Who and How I am Living Day to Day and Moment to Moment, as this will determine the shape and form of this next phase of my life.

 

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Secret Dimensions of Depression – An Artists Journey To Life: Day 738

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The other day I noticed this specific dimension of depression that I was stuck in and that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate with.

What I noticed is that I went into this point of manipulation towards others. Now it wasn’t like ‘out-right’ manipulation. It was more subtle, in my demeanor, body language and presence.

Essentially I was wanting others in my environment to feel guilty for me. To Feel Guilty as if it is there fault somehow that I am the way I am, and that my experience is the way it is.

Now this is very sneaky because within this, I am abdicating my own responsibility for myself to Stand Up out of my experience, and acknowledge that My Experience, My Situation, My Life, is My Responsibility.

I realized this point during a writing session and when I saw this, I stopped.

This specific behavior has been something that I developed throughout my life where I try and make others seem responsible for my situation. I can see this played a role in the relationship I had with my brother, where I would often try to manipulate him into feeling bad for me and then so trying to make me feel better, instead of me Standing within my own Self Responsibility for myself and my experience.

Its like, when things are going shit, instead of supporting myself to take responsibility for myself and really investigate into myself and find solutions, I just try and drag others down to my level.

Quite an evil point.

So I see this point clearly now and have made the decision to STOP. And to take responsibility for myself and the particular point/challenges I face in my life at the moment.

The main point for me was seeing that now I was becoming like a virus that is trying to infect others as a deliberate act.That is quite a length to go to so In seeing that, I just saw how nasty that was and stopped.

And am now in the process of Taking Responsibility for the current challenges in my life and first standing within a point of taking FULL Responsibility for my situation and then in the meantime can also get support from others where needed.

I mean it was a cool realization to because then I can now empower myself and Stand within a point of strength instead of existing in this point of not wanting to take responsibility for myself.

So just wanted to share this sneaky dimension of depression.

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DE pression EX pression – An Artists Journey To Life: Day 736

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I have been facing this particular point within myself of existing within and as the word ‘Depression’. And what I see I have been accepting and allowing is that I go into this behavior of ‘giving up’ when for instance I am looking for something to do in my environment where I can see for myself that it is clearly a moment where I could either potentially find something to do to that would be supportive or where I could just do something that is more just a ‘time waster’.

So what I have been noticing is that when I am living the word Depression that I will tend to “give up on myself” when I am looking at something to do which includes potential points of support.

What happens specifically is that I will see something supportive that I could do, but then I will only consider it for a second or two before dismissing it within a point of  ‘quickly giving up on myself’

So here I am going apply Self Forgiveness on this particular point.

 

Self Forgiveness

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to Live the word Depression through by quickly dismissing support that I could give to myself in moments, where within existing within and as Depression, I will more easily dismiss moments of support.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to give into the energy experience of ‘not wanting to support myself’ and to not push through that experience of not wanting to support myself and to direct myself to support me which I see is best for me.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to live the word Depression through participating within and as the statements “its not worth it” “its too hard” “whats the point, I am a failure” “fuck it” “its never going to work anyways” in relation to potential points and moments of support that come up throughout my day, where here I use these back-chat statements to re-inforce my position of depression which is an action where I am not supporting myself in a way that is actually best or good for me but am existing within ‘procrastination’ ‘laziness’ lethargy’ ‘self diminishment’ where I just slouch around and entertain myself and waste time, not really doing things that are in fact supporting me to Live to my Utmost Potential.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that “there is no point to supporting myself” believing that “it never works anyways” I see, realize, and understand that obviously this is not true, but that it may sometimes get discouraging when I am not supporting myself how I would like, but obviously giving up on self support completely is not a Solution but a point of giving up actually and also here contributing to the Living out and existing within and as Depression.

Therefore I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to want a miracle change when I support myself, instead of just keeping it simple and practical where the obvious common sense is that doing something supportive, like writing when facing a moment where I am in a reaction is obviously more supportive than suppressing  the reaction and just entertaining myself as a way to distract myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to project “the results of self support” as a way to decide or determine if I will support myself or not, and within this create an expectation of what will happen, to which I speak the statement within myself “it will never work” or “I will never change” and so then decide not to support myself.

Rather here I commit myself to keep my process of Self Support Simple when I see that I am existing and participating within and as the word “Depression”, keeping it simple from the perspective that I do not need or require some kind of miracle change to support myself to stand up out of Depression, I just require to make one decision in one moment to support myself instead of neglecting myself. Its as simple as that, and then within accumulating these moments of making the decision to support myself instead of ignoring myself, I can stand up out of the point of Depression. So here I commit myself to keep it simple and to not project ideas of change but just stick to the common sense in the moment, that, “the only way out of the depression is to stand up and Live the word Support, instead if Neglect”.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to influence myself through thinking that “I will never change” and to use that statement as an excuse to not apply myself in Self Support in moments.

When and as I see myself within a point of depression and facing a moment of potential change where I can move out of Living the word ‘Depression’, ‘Neglect’, and ‘Ignorance’ and into the Word ‘Support’ and ‘Care’ and when, in such moments I see the statement come up “I will never change” in relation to past actions/memories and future projections, as a reason why not to Live the words Support and Care, I take a breath within myself, and realize that I do not have to worry or think about changing from the perspective of if and how its going to work or not, I simply keep it straight forward – that it is more supportive for me to Support Myself than to neglect myself, and so I commit myself to not accept and allow myself to use this reasoning and justification that “I will never change” as a excuse to not support myself because I see here clearly that all that is required is a simple act of Support which is more beneficial than ‘doing nothing’, and so here I commit myself to just focus on one moment at a time, and stop any and all future projections and past memory playouts, and just stick to one moment at a time, looking at where and how I can support myself moment to moment. And so to within this Support myself to move out of the word Depression into and as the Word Expression, as I Express myself in Self Support and Care, where I am active in supporting myself to Live to my utmost potential.

I commit myself to also here assist and support myself to move myself out the ‘energy’ of Depression within and when I am faced with potential moments of support where here I commit myself to Live the Word Support through and as Physically moving myself through the Depression Energy which is a kind of resistance to supporting myself and actually putting in the effort, and so I commit myself to Direct myself to put in that effort to move through that depression energy into the act of Support and Care.

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Hopelessness, and Not Really Doing Anything – An Artists Journey To Life: Day 731

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Recently I looked at my life and I looked at some of the primary aspects of my life and primary points I am facing as those aspects of my life and I looked at what WORDS was defining myself and my experience in relation to and as this. One of the words which came up was the word ‘Hopelessness’ and so now I will open up this point for myself within and as the process of Redefining myself so as to support myself to stop existing within and as the word Hopelessness and then end up having this be and become me and my life.

 

When I live the word hopelessness, I within this, allow a lot of procrastination. So within hopeLESSness, I am much LESS active within my physical movement, direction, and expression. I am more lethargic and moping around and not as eager or willing to pull myself out of my state of inactivity and depression and direct myself to express myself and create my reality with a sense of determination, strength, purpose, enjoyment, and passion are a few words that come up.

 

Within hopelessness I see that its like “I just can’t seem to find the will or reason to pull myself out of my state of inactivity, procrastination, and giving up. Its like I have lost all sense of willingness to express and create myself. And so I just exist within a state of hopelessness.

 

If you were to suggest or ask me if I wanted to do something, In hopelessness, I would look at both options and just say ‘no’ even if there was a glimmer of interest within me to do something.

 

I see this axis as an important point here within this redefinition of myself in moving from hopelessness to Hopeful. This ‘axis’ is that moment where I will see a point within myself or my reality where I want to express myself or where I had planned to express myself and then where I will either live the word hopelessness, which is a form of giving up, and then so, not bother to Direct and move myself to create and express, and direct me. Or I will direct myself within Physical Action to express myself and move myself within certain tasks or points as they arrive, and so become an active creative expression.

 

In Hopelessness, the ‘saying no’ is dominant when it comes to doing the things that I would actually like to do, or tending to those responsibilities that would be beneficial for me to tend to.

 

With hopelessness, a point will come up, and I will look at it, and think “its too much” or “whats the point” and there will be this experience, like this pit in my stomach where I will just feel like “its hopeless” and whats the point, and “its never going to work out”  or “its to hard” and “just not feeling ‘up’ for it”and so I end up existing in all these backchats and so then just shrug my shoulders and ‘do something else’ doing something easier, something which is more me just ‘passing time’ and not really expressing or creating myself and my reality which is what I would like to start practicing.

 

I listened to an Eqafe Interview today on “The Spark of Hope” and one of the points mentioned within the interview was how to live that “Spark of Hope” was to Act, and Physically Live. And so this is something that I here commit myself to start practicing instead of accepting and allowing myself to continue living out this primary experience that has defined much of my life as hopelessness, where there is just a general sense of “not bothering” and rather opting out than opting in, disengaging than engaging.

 

In HopeLESSness there is LESS action, and less doing. And in being HopeFULL, one is FULL of action and doing. So this is what I see a key is in this redefinition point of myself. Its not even so much based on ‘outcome’ on whether something will or will not work out, but rather, its more about Testing, Finding Solutions, and Supporting Oneself Actively through Self Movement and Physical Living to create onself and ones life.

 

Alright so I will leave it here for this blog, and continue with here, practicing this point of stepping out of hopelessness, as inactivity, and into hopefulness as physical action, movement, and self creation.

 

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Is ‘Sleeping In’ Really About Being Tired? – An Artists Journey To Life – Day 594

Today when I opened my eyes to get out of bed, I did not want to get up.

For the past while I have been deliberately assisting and supporting myself with the point of establishing a more stable and supportive ‘morning routine’ which implies that I would not be sleeping in, or at least that was part of the agreement I made with myself, though today this point came up of where I had that experience of ‘not wanting to get out of bed.’

What is interesting about this is that in this case, as with many cases in the past it is not really about  being tired – that is not the reason I ‘sleep in’ or have slept in. What I see is that this point of ‘sleeping in’ often has more to do with what I would be facing when I get up as my reality than actually a point of being sleepy or tired.

I see one can mistake that feeling of wanting to sleep in as ‘just being tired’, but in my experience its not really just about ‘being tired’ and I mean if one is really ‘too tired’ to get up in the morning you must ask yourself why that is and to check what else in your life/reality might be influencing you within this point where you have trouble getting out of bed in the morning

So today I had this ‘tiredness’ which I see was actually more of a resistance to getting up and facing my reality.

Yesterday in the evening as I went to sleep I could actually already see that “I was going to sleep in tomorrow’ This point was already building and constructing within me the night/day before where by the time I went to bed it was like I had not actually given sufficient consideration and direction to certain points within my world that as a result contributed to me creating a resistance towards getting up the next day – because ultimately I would be faced with these same points I was not giving direction to when I woke up the next day.

Primarily there was some decisions at work that I had to make or that I hadn’t made yet and in a way I was not yet certain on what I was going to do and so not having made these decisions but rather leaving them open ended/un directed, in a way contributed to this resistance point in the morning.

I can even trace this moment back further. This moment that culminated this morning manifesting as a single moment when I opened my eyes and decided to just stay in bed a little longer.

So today I was looking at this point and tracing it back into my reality where it was like “I should have seen this coming” Yesterday I remember my boss had asked me what project I was going to work on and after I had told him and was continuing after walking to my car to go home I experienced that I was not satisfied with my answer and that there was like this inner conflict going on inside me now. And so this is partly the point I faced this morning when I got up and was still not clear on what It was exactly that I was going to be working on next. And so this resulted in me staying in bed a little longer due to the resistance that I was existing within instead of sticking to the routine I had in place.

There was a few other factors at play within this also. But for me I see that often what manifests within my life in terms of when there is for instance points of conflict accumulating inside me without effective direction is a form of depression which also comes through as a point of ‘sleeping in’ which is simply that point of not wanting to face or make certain decisions within my life.

So I see how I can assist and support myself within the point of ‘prevention is the best cure’ in where in this particular case this point of sleeping in this morning had actually been brewing for a few days so thus I can support myself to become more aware of this point so to support myself to not allow this point of ‘sleeping in’ or more specifically ‘wanting to sleep in’ to accumulate within me through by allowing decisions that come up within my life to go un-directed or unattended to in a way where these un-directed decisions start to build up inside in.

After I had gotten up and got to work, I was a bit fumbly in terms of actually deciding on my course of action – meaning it was not exactly a smooth process but eventually those decisions that I was avoiding as I was hiding in my bed this morning , did get made.

For me, part of the realization that came through today was related to seeing how this moment that I created as that point of ‘sleeping in’ was in fact done so throughout the past week or weeks. It was not just a moment existing individually on its own where I for some reason did not want to get out of bed. Rather it was a breaking point if you will of accumulated moments, or decisions that I did not give decisive and clear direction to that kind of conglomerated together throughout the past few days, weeks, months, years, even,  into this “I don’t know what to do” experience that influenced my living behavior in a way where now I am participating with a point and at times within my past a pattern of ‘sleeping in’ or ‘not getting out of bed in the morning’.

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Retreat, Withdraw, Extract – An Artists Journey To Life: Day 521

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The Isolation Character.

Isolating myself has been one of the primary ways that I “deal with my world”. I only identified this point later in life where if I look at my past I can see this tendency I had to spend allot of time alone, but I did not recognize that this was in part because I was more comfortable alone which means, I was often uncomfortable around people, and so I just preferred to be alone. Thus my preference for “being alone” had a ‘reactive’ element to it, where I was in a way reacting/in reaction towards others so ‘preferred’ to be alone. Of course I had friends at school and things like that, but I do see this aspect of my life where my bedroom became like my sanctuary where I would really enjoy just being in my bedroom, often drawing or playing video games. There was a feeling of safety I experienced and I find I still have this experience where “if I can just get home and in my room” where as soon as I close the door, its like a sigh of relief comes over me, and I am safe now, safe from the world, safe from having to ‘fight’ my reality which is an experience I do see I have within myself in relation to my reality.

In recent years I have found this isolation point to be a problem because instead of dealing with the responsibilities of my life I just want to withdraw, extracting myself from my reality so that nothing or no one can bother or interrupt me and I will be alone and for a moment at peace.

So what tends to play-out is that I will walk in my reality for a period of time, and direct my responsibilities but then I will reach a point where its like this isolation character triggers and steps forth and I just start to shut down and not want to face anything or do anything or speak to anyone. I will withdraw into my room, into my sanctuary and literally cut myself from the world. This to me is a ‘natural reaction’ is something that I have programed into myself so extensively that it is now ‘natural’ – automatic.

What is interesting within this as I write about this point of wanting to be alone and just ‘cutting ties’ with ‘the outside world’ is that in fact, even in my isolation, I am still so dependant on so many beings, and that my ability to isolate myself is actually only possible if for instance I have money, which is often facilitated by other individuals standing within points of responsibility which then in turn allow me to generate at least some money to stay afloat.

So I mean to say “I just want to be alone” is not actually accurate, because its more like “I just want to be alone….but….still want all the necessary relationships with points/individuals that facilitate my survival to stay in tact.”

Ok so I am going to have a look at the various dimensions of this Character  because I still notice quite often this “isolation character” stepping forth in my reality where my total functionality within my reality in terms of managing and creating the necessary relationships to have my reality work becomes aligned with ‘the very minimum’ , like an animal that hibernate in the winter and shut down the necessary parts of its body so to be able to remain alive as it hibernate through the winter utilizing just the minimum amount of relationships required to sustain an absolute minimum existence, and so such is this “isolation character” point for me, where I will literally end up just doing the absolute minimum in terms of relationship management where the functionality of my life could be classified as “on life support” the just the very basic functions happening so that my reality doesn’t fall apart, so as long as I can live/exist in my isolated sanctuary of my bedroom which is like the physical externalization of the mind in way, existing in only a small compartment within myself/my reality.

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Remaining Constant in the Ebs and Flows – An Artists Journey to Life: Day 470

 

Today when I went to work, I was informed that one of the employees had made a sale the previous day. I immediately went into a point of comparison and so also thus competition.

When I was informed of this happening, I went into a point of “feeling inadequate” from the perspective of comparing myself to the other person as if they have “something special” that I don’t. I also experienced a negative energy come up within me. It was quite a heavy lethargic experience, like a disappointment within myself and also the point of feeling like a failure.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to react in either positive or negative energy in relation to co-workers either making or not making sales.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to react today when I was informed that one of my co-workers made a sale where when I herd this I went immediately into comparison, comparing his sales against my sales.

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to, when I herd of one of my co-workers making a sale, go into a point of inferiority and inadequacy where I judged myself as being ineffective and ‘not good enough’ instead of realizing that the sale my co-worker did was related to his performance and not a result of me performing badly.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear falling out of favor with my boss and within where I work because I fear not making money.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to supress myself when I see others around me being successful where here what I notice is that In a way I went into a kind of shrinking within myself in relation to my co-worker when hearing about the sale he had made where this “shrinking within myself” is related to the competition dynamic where here I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself according to this dynamic and specifically according to the point of winner and loser where the winner gets all the accolades and the loser is not worthy or not as good as the winner and so “as the loser” I went into this kind of “shrinking” and becoming less towards the winner who expands and becomes more.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define myself as ‘better than’ my co-workers when I make sales and they do not where this becomes a point of self definition I utilize to define myself and generate a specific experience I have towards myself to in a way validate me within the context of this world, here not really aligning myself to Living in a way in every breath that stand within and as true integrity, and so instead of actually really directing myself in a way that is really best for all, I will just go ahead and try to superficially validate myself through the design of winning and losing where if I can become the winner than this apparently makes me worthy and valid, even though in the very design of winner and loser that in order for me to win, another has to lose and end up in a position that if I were to end up in would feel and experience myself as unworthy and so am thus supporting the demise of others in my attempt to apparently validate myself which obviously then would not be real validation because how can something that contribute to the demise of others be validated and stand as any point of deriving worth what so ever.

I commit myself to when and as I see myself reacting to my co-workers making sales and having success, where I will experience a negative emotion coming up within me as jealousy and also inadequacy to when I see such a reaction coming up and existing within me to stop and breath and bring myself back here to the moment so to stop my reaction and assist and support myself to remain Stable, and Constant in my Self Directive Principle within my application at work. In bringing myself back here, I commit myself to assist and support myself to remain aligned with my practical goals and my practical plan that I have laid out for myself. I see that it is not supportive to go into comparison towards others and going into positivity or negativity in relation how others or myself are doing but that rather its more effective if I simply do what is within my hands and within my ability to do. And to in this remain Stable in and as my practical physical application instead of going into emotional/feelings experiences towards how others and myself is performing within the context of comparison, And so I commit myself to assist and support myself to when and as I see reactions coming up within me in relation to how my myself or co-workers are performing at work, to stop and breath and in my breath to ground myself here in and as the physical in and as my practical physical waking of the plan that I have assessed for myself would be the best way from me to direct myself in terms of applying myself to the best of my ability and to my highest potential within the context of my job currently. Thus I realize, that regardless of how my co-workers are doing, this does not change the simple principle of applying myself to my fullest capacity and potential. This is not based in comparison at all. It is based on looking at practically what I can do to assist and support myself within all contexts of my job and to thus actually move myself to do this. And so I commit myself to instead of reacting when I see my co-workers having success, to simply remain here within my Stability of continuing to assist and support myself in the most practically effective way possible that I see I am able to and thus there is no reason for me to go into any kind of reaction but simply to walk day by day, breath by breath to the best of my ability within the context of my job. Because that is the one point that is within my 2 hands and thus a point I am completely responsible for. I cannot control what others do and there is no reason to. So rather to simply ensure that I am functioning and applying MYSELF to my optimum potential and ability.

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